Being silent doesn’t mean you’re not talking.
Being quiet doesn’t mean you have to keep all the heartaches inside you.
Silence, in the eyes of most people, is a symbol of weakness. They say that whenever someone puts you down, you should fight back and
make them experience what you had, return it to them in its worst form. If you remain silent, they see
you as a weakling who can bear all the pains they’re putting on you. All the
bad words and mischievous pranks that they set you in.
If someone argues with you, especially when you know you are right, is it a relief if you explain yourself? In the first place, a person argues and bombards you with words because he sees himself as a person who never commits mistakes. So you'll just waste your saliva voicing out your point of view. If you stay silent, he will think (he will even be annoyed) and be dead curious about what you're thinking. That would be the time that his defense mechanism covers his whole-being, by saying more words that are not related to the matter anymore and by picking up a fight to show you how strong he is physically. And that's when he already looks stupid.
If someone bullies you, are you sure that the words you're going to say will stop them from doing it to you? If you tell them to stop, they would laugh at you and mock you more. If you pretend you're not affected, they would make extra effort to put you down. Now you're gonna be asking, "Then what should I do?" Kick their asses with good grades, achievements galore, and show them that you now live your dream. For sure, those bullies spend their whole life putting others down without them knowing that what they do never brings them up.
If you speak up to someone who's not listening, you'll just waste your time because he didn't even have time to listen to what he's saying.
Silence is speaking to yourself, knowing yourself, and motivating yourself.
It's like combat without mud on your boots. It's like a winning boxing move that won't cause you any bruises. It's like a maneuver in a diplomatic way.
It doesn't have to be hard taking back all the wrong statements you've said. It doesn't have to cause you so much pain when people are putting you down.
In silence, and in God's time, they will realize that they were the ones who made a mistake.
If someone bullies you, are you sure that the words you're going to say will stop them from doing it to you? If you tell them to stop, they would laugh at you and mock you more. If you pretend you're not affected, they would make extra effort to put you down. Now you're gonna be asking, "Then what should I do?" Kick their asses with good grades, achievements galore, and show them that you now live your dream. For sure, those bullies spend their whole life putting others down without them knowing that what they do never brings them up.
If you speak up to someone who's not listening, you'll just waste your time because he didn't even have time to listen to what he's saying.
Silence is speaking to yourself, knowing yourself, and motivating yourself.
It's like combat without mud on your boots. It's like a winning boxing move that won't cause you any bruises. It's like a maneuver in a diplomatic way.
It doesn't have to be hard taking back all the wrong statements you've said. It doesn't have to cause you so much pain when people are putting you down.
In silence, and in God's time, they will realize that they were the ones who made a mistake.
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